The person you’re mad at, the one you won’t forgive and you just can’t believe they did that, that person that you think is terrible and thoughtless, who will never become a better person, because they did something unthinkable, something you’d never do…get that person in your head. Now-
God loves that person as much as He loves you. His grace covers them with the same stroke of white paint that covered your dirt. That person is hurting and God grieves because of their pain. They don’t need judgment from you. They need love. Return the grace you’ve been given.