30 Things About My Invisible Illness (AKA: Ehlers Danlos) You May Not Know
1. The illness(s) I live with is: Ehlers Danlos – Classic and Hypermoblility types, Sjogren’s Syndrome, Fibromyalgia, and Lupus
2. I was diagnosed with it in the year: EDS in April 2015, SS in May 2015, Fibro 1994, and Lupus 2002
3. But I had symptoms since: varying symptoms since I can remember. Usually blown off to being klutzy or clumsy or just awkward.
4. The biggest adjustment I’ve had to make is: having the people I care the most not understand what is going on.
5. Most people assume: I’m making excuses or that I am trying to get out of something when really I can’t do whatever it is that is being asked of me.
6. The hardest part about mornings are: Making sure my daughter is up on time and ready and fed and all that and I haven’t lost my mind in the process.
7. My favorite medical TV show is: Chicago Fire
8. A gadget I couldn’t live without is: Those handy squishy things to put over jar lids to help me open them.
9. The hardest part about nights are: SLEEP
10. Each day I take _11_ pills & vitamins. (No comments, please) RIGHT NOW IT’S 11 (TOMORROW I SEE THE DOC)
11. Regarding alternative treatments I: I absolutely LOVE hot stone therapy. I can’t afford it but once in a blue moon. I think most alternative therapies do work for me. You have to be rich to continue with them though.
12. If I had to choose between an invisible illness or visible I would choose: at this point, I don’t know which I would want…neither!
13. Regarding working and career: I miss working. I have never really had a career since this hit me so early on in college. I never got to experience a career. That makes me terribly sad.
14. People would be surprised to know: There are still a lot of things I would love to do if given the chance. If able to get pain under control and legs/hips = ability to stand or walk better
15. The hardest thing to accept about my new reality has been: not knowing from one day to the next how my body will be responding to the weather, or the temperature or the light or sound, etc.
16. Something I never thought I could do with my illness that I did was: learn so much about it.
17. The commercials about my illness: I haven’t seen many here in Minnesota
18. Something I really miss doing since I was diagnosed is: running around, playing hard with my daughter, riding bike
19. It was really hard to have to give up: bike riding
20. A new hobby I have taken up since my diagnosis is: lots of walking
21. If I could have one day of feeling normal again I would: go camping and hiking, canoeing, boating, spend the day with my daughter out in the woods just having adventure after adventure
22. My illness has taught me: slowing down is ok
23. Want to know a secret? One thing people say that gets under my skin is: at least you are still alive with your daughter.
24. But I love it when people: take time to laugh and joke and treat me like myself, like nothing is wrong.
25. My favorite motto, scripture, quote that gets me through tough times is: …I PRESS ON…..
26. When someone is diagnosed I’d like to tell them: It takes a little while to adjust, but once you get your bearings, friends gather, new and old, and we stick together like glue and we gotta lotta living to do.
27. Something that has surprised me about living with an illness is: there are so many supportive people that live far away that are just as supportive as the ones close by. I love them just the same.
28. The nicest thing someone did for me when I wasn’t feeling well was: She read to me. She read me stories, all sorts of stories.
29. I’m involved with Invisible Illness Week because: Invisible Illnesses need to be made aware of. There are so many different kinds and so many different ones that don’t get the feedback that others do. Take time to read about invisible illnesses.
30. The fact that you read this list makes me feel: blessed and honored. Thank you. ❤